Nov 17, 2011

Beyond the definition of Love

From Abu Hurairah r.a:

A man came to Rasulullah s.a.w and said,

O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship?

Rasulullah s.a.w said,
Your mother.

Then who?

Then your mother.

Then who?

Then your mother.

Then who?

Then your father.

(narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)

*****

Mother had always, always being one of the best role model to us. Superwoman, indeed she is.. Time passes, I learn to understand the hadith from Rasulullah s.a.w  deeper, and definitely in a perspective I'd never had myself being in before..

Despite the fact that Rasulullah s.a.w able not to feel the touch of love from a mother for long, yet he realizes well how much a mother means to someone put myself in tears.. A noble prophet with a strong soul and heart, but most gentle at what is supposed to. More and more reason to fall in love with him..

We miss you O Rasulullah..
I miss you...

Now I realize how much bonding a mother actually happens to make with The Great Khaliq in bearing every single second in her life..

Allahuakbar.. Allahuakbar.. Allahuakbar..

Mothers may not jot mountain, ocean of things she has to face, to sacrifice, to struggle for the sake of her  child; by the moment Allah lend her the trust, amanah  to bear a creature for Him to whisper the precious soul, ruh inside her womb during her tough, very tough 9 months pregnancy, continued to the life and death moment of which a mother's sins is forgiven through the delivery and it's even possible for her to be awarded a gift of syahid for the reality of how heavy the task is, and raising that amanah at her best for many years, even after the child has his or her own family..



Nonetheless, Allah already dedicated and compile lots, lots, lots of memoir to be part of the diary of a mother in the Kalamullah, Al Quran..

 "And We have enjoined upon man (care) for his parents.
His mother carried him, (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness,
and his weaning is in two years.
Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the (final) destination."
(Luqman, 14)

Love letters from Allah for pregnant ladies (for mothers, for the parents) besides His truly beautiful gift of the lovely feeling in having the little caliph kicking and moving around inside.. Allah with His Great Generosity and Love is sweet, extremely sweet to mothers:')

What a huge and wonderful appreciation to mothers from Allah.. Subhanallah.. A gratitude from The Great Almighty towards His servant.. There it is, He deserves the greatest appreciation ever.

I slowly discover, if not much, then a little, what a mother really feels when her children hurts her feeling.. The running tears on her cheeks may not solely due to the actions done, but also because of everything she's been through for her child...

Love and respect our mothers in ways they truly deserved to, Insya Allah..



Ummi has no regret to sacrifice things for you Honey..
Yaqeen. Yaqeen. Yaqeen.
Lillahita'ala.

17 comments:

abu zarim said...

ummi,,:)...mmg terbaik la,,,bile nk jd ummi ni,,:),,,entry yg bnyak bg manfaat,,walaupon,sy xhebat sngt english,tp,boleh faham la,,:),,insyaAllah,Allah bg faham,,,:),,

نور توفيقة ادريس said...

In the middle of the route, Biiznillah..

Doakan banyak2 k..

:)

Bila last cakap2 dengan mak? Give her a call or message. Mesti mak happy nanti~

fuad ansari said...

dengan segala kelebihan yg ada pada insan bergelar ibu, ,maka ibulah yg paling layak mengandungkan anak..

sy lihat, anak2 kecil sgt mirip kepada sifat dan tingkah laku ibunya..

mungkin sbb tu, langkah awal utk mendapat anak yg soleh adalah memilih ibu yg solehah..

slmt menjadi ibu, pqa.. (",)

~PENCHENTA~ said...

:'D

Speechless. :(

mhafiz_ydin said...

Tengok baby kakak.. time tido time tu la dy nak nangis. Time nak nangis time tu la org tido. Penat + letih.. Dpt feel betapa besar pengorbanan seorang ibu.

Respek2.. selamat jd ibu mithali.

نور توفيقة ادريس said...

Fuad:

Quite proven..
Perempuan sehebat Hajar "hasilkan" anak sehebat Ismail..
Perempuan sehebat Ummu Sulaim "hasilkan" anak sehebat Anas..
Raaaamai lagi..

Jzk Fuad.Amin Amin Amin..


Tya:

Simpan speech waktu jumpa akak bila akak balik m'sia nnt k:))


Hafiz:

:))
Ada baby ni, waktu pregnant lagi dah selalu "kacau" waktu tidur ummi dia.. Active sangat dalam "dunia" dia sampai boleh buat ummi dia terbangun tgh2 malam..

Cepat2 jadi baba mithali~

Light of Life said...

Assalamualaikum..

Ummi Pqa :')

Rindunya...

Hm..Baru baca sampai para 1, rasa bergenang airmata.. Masa birthday ummi last Sept hari tu, dedicated kan Surah Luqman ayat 14 ni dekat ummi...Sekarang untuk Pqa pulak yer... :p

Yati ada something nak share pasal kelebihan ibu hamil. Nanti Yati email Pqa oke? Take a very good care. No need to worry about my late email tu.. (Pqa tak payah reply pun takpe, Yati malu...huhu :'( )

Fi amanillah.. Pqa Kuat! :')

نور توفيقة ادريس said...

Wa'alaikumsalam..

Yati~
Happy belated birthday to your ummi.
And jazakillah for dedicating it to me either:))

Email lah. Email lah. Happynya~~~

Pasal email yati, pqa sorry sgt tak dapat reply lagi. Pqa ada Daurah every weekend and there are 2 usrah every week..

I need time to fully "get into" the situation you are having.. And again, dah cakap banyak kali, takmo malu.. Eishhh..

Kita kuat!

Pencari ALLAH said...

Naluri tersentuh membaca setiap bait-bait kata-kata akak. InsyaALLAH..akak mampu menjadi seperti mereka dengan kemahuan hati bertunjangkan kehendakNYA.Amin..

نور توفيقة ادريس said...

Amin..
Kita perempuan dari Ummat Muhammad.
Kita mampu, Biiznillah!

:)

Asiah Syarifah said...
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Asiah Syarifah said...

nice one...i want to be solehah for make my future baby soleh solehah.. segalanya untuk agama ALLAH..insyaallah,insyallah.. makin piqah create coretan caMni sy mkin rs syg kat piqah,walau perkenalan kita di sekolh rendah cuma..hehe
i LOVE who LOVE ALLAH..(",)

Pencari ALLAH said...

Umat yang terpilih dari kalangan umat sebelumnya.syukur alhamdulillah

Anonymous said...

Yaqeen,yaqeen,yaqeen..akan janjiNYA
semua hanyalah kerana Allah S.W.T.

harus kuat,sabar,redha dan tabah dalam menghadapi semua cabaran dan dugaan,Allah Maha Mengetahui setiap Hamba2NYA..:)

نور توفيقة ادريس said...

Syarifah:

Kita sama2 jadi solehah.. "perkenalan" kerana Allah mesti lah lagi special dari perkenalan waktu kecik2^^

It's what we call UKHWAH FILLAH:')


Pencari Allah:

Alhamdulillah:))


Anonymous:

YAQEEN.
Selagi apa yang kita buat adalah mengikut apa yang Dia tunjuk, susah atau senang, Allahuma'ana.

Go Go Go!

As said...

Life perspective turns 360 degrees.

My dear pqa

Have a safe and bless pregnancy insyaAllah!

We really understand what our mother feels once we're going to be a mother. Allah knows. Take care. :)

LOve.

نور توفيقة ادريس said...

Jazakillah Kak Sanah..

Amin Amin Allahumma Amin..

Indeed it is..
Sekarang slowly faham perasaan sebenar mak towards anak2..

Huu..

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